Men and women communicate in very different ways when it comes to the social world. Men prefer a very straight-forward, no fluff approach to problems and word choice. On the other hand, women prefer an exchange of complaints or self minimization to remain on an equal social level. This exchange between men and women becomes complicated when women offer their social step up and men don't follow suit.
Some might just see how men are being the dominant relentless figure, but realistically they don't even know they are doing something wrong. They are not purposely attacking the woman's feelings or status, but the man is seen as aggressive and insensitive. Could this simple misunderstanding be morphing into a large portion of why men and women sit at polar ends so often? Could simple misjudgment by both sides, over time, result in permanent bad blood between two different groups?
Why does not society take the time to educate our people from a young age about the differences in mannerism that will arise in their futures? Does society not have a mutual vested interest in the compatibility of their males and females and an elevated level of communication between them? So many problems might just boil down to "This was all just a giant misunderstanding." instead of the complex problems that hang above our heads still.
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